Dan,
You are absolutely correct, many people have wanted Handoff/Continuity on their machines. Apple has even left the 2011 machines out of the mix for those features despite having the required Bluetooth 4.0. This is planned obsolesce at it's worst; blocking a very functional software feature when the hardware is present, just because you can.
However, never underestimate the power of the community.
Being iFixit, these types of things do worry us, and we keep our eyes open for fixes. Earlier today, a number of blogs broke news of a piece of software that would enable the missing features for the 2011 Macs (that have Bluetooth 4.0). That piece of software can be found here:
Continuity Activation Tool
What about those who don't have Bluetooth 4.0 on their machine? Well, we are working on coming up with a solution for them too. I'm working with our product manager to try and source some of these bluetooth cards that have the 4.0 standard. There are some machines that Apple hasn't built compatible 4.0 models for, and these sadly will most likely continue to be left out.
We are looking into it, and we hope to have a resource for this within the next few weeks.